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For reflection: 6 sentences from the book "The Knight in Rusty Armor"


The book "The Knight in Rusty Armor" teaches us great lessons on how to gain self-knowledge. In this adventure, we witness the inner alchemy that seethes in each one of us. Few works are so simple yet so profound in trying to motivate us to change.

But not only the book is interesting and fascinating. The author also makes readers curious: Robert Fisher was one of the best comedy writers in the world. He worked equally in film, theater, and television and worked for Groucho Marx, Lucille Ball, and Bob Hope. Without a doubt, his career can be described as extraordinary. He knew how to convey an optimistic and constructive view of life through his wonderful art.

Beyond his ability to make the viewer and the reader laugh, he always encouraged reflection on where his own possibilities and limitations lie. His extensive experience as a comedian and playwright enabled him to successfully appeal to the conscience of the people. He tried to promote our personal development with his works.

Phrases from the book The Knight with rusty armor
The story revolves around a unique knight. We have a man in front of us that at first sight seems admirable: he is brave, generous and confident in good-natured actions. Now there is something else that we recognize after a short time. He is so blinded by his knightly armor that he does not appreciate what he has.

His blindness even causes him to completely neglect his surroundings. Unable to appreciate anything but his own virtues, one day he realizes that his armor is no longer shining and begins to rust. Caught in himself, he embarks on a spiritual journey with the goal of freeing himself from all barriers. It is this moment that makes us think.  The following sentences from The Knight with Rusty Armor are undoubtedly examples of this realization, of this awakening, which we should all strive for.

1. What is under our armor

"We set up barriers to protect who we think we are. Then one day we get stuck behind the barriers, and we can't get out."

The knight is fully convinced that he is good and generous. His actions, however, do not reflect these assumptions unconditionally. Under his armor is a person who has to shine to compensate for internal deficiencies. This figure was able to fight big battles and oppose everything supposedly evil. But at no time was aware of the enemy he wore inside. This angry dragon holding his true self.

We should remember that each of us somehow dawns in rusty armor. The one in which we hide from unresolved conflicts or ignore resistance to the extent that our true self is suppressed.

2. The emotional relief

"Tears from real feelings will release me from my armor!"

It is the first step to acknowledge our needs and to deal with our feelings. Only then we can free ourselves from the weight of our armor. It's nothing to free them from the grill and bring again shine ourselves as freedom of creating and releasing tension.

3. Becoming aware of what's important

“Human beings were given two feet so that they would not have to stay in one place, but if they would stand still more often to accept and appreciate instead of running around to grab, they would truly understand ambition from the heart.”

This is one of the sentences in this book that invites us to reflect. Our knight crosses city boundaries, lands and kingdoms to do good things. He saves, defends and protects others from evil. Ultimately, this character developed a greater love for his armor than for his family.

His wife and son barely occupy a significant place in his life. He has neglected what is really important. Therefore, let us not forget that we are all free to move, to grow and to move forward, but at the same time we must become aware of our roots because these are the ones that hold us.

4. The here and now

 “He’d never enjoyed what was happening at the time. It occurred to him that for most of his life, he hadn’t really listened to anyone or anything. The rustle of the wind, the patter of the rain, and the sound of water running through the brooks must have always been there, but he never actually heard them…”

Appreciating the moment and being receptive to its surroundings makes us realize what is really valuable. If we focus only on ourselves and past deeds, our armor will continue to rust. The true light shines in the present, where we have the opportunity to find our happiness.

5. Love yourself

“The knight cried harder as he realized that if he didn’t love himself, he couldn’t really love others. His need for them would get in the way. Looking up through his tears, he saw Merlin smiling down. ‘You have discovered a great truth,’ the magician told the knight. ‘You can love others only to the extent that you love yourself.'”
There is a moment in the book in which the knight gives up his resistance. He has penetrated so far into the forest of his subconscious that he thinks of fleeing to return to his family. Later, however, he realizes that he can not go back yet. He does not know how to take care of himself. He does not love himself enough for that. How should he show others the love they deserve?
So this is our first step to personal transformation: a healthy self-love. At the same time, we should learn to appreciate ourselves, to heal and to look after ourselves.

6. Silence as a channel of hearing

“Being quiet is more than not talking.” 
This is another sentence from the book The Knight in Rusty Armor.  The knight must set himself, in the midst of his loneliness and absolute silence, to the dragon of his thoughts. Such a situation is not pleasant. The thoughts are too loud and the shields insufficiently effective. They prevent access to themselves, which it absolutely needs to defeat the wrong me ...

In this scenario of silence, he manages to realize his needs and embrace his authentic self. There, where there is no other option but to listen.

Finally, it's worth saying something about Robert Fisher, the author of this book. More than once, he explained that the idea for his book came up in several near-death experiences. Life showed him his limits in different situations. His inner voice always said, "You can not die. You have not fulfilled what you came for. "

This book was his mission and it changed his life. For more than six years he devoted himself to this work. The sentences from the book "The Knight in Rusty Armor" remind us that we, too, have a mission to find our destiny. But first, we have to free ourselves from our armor.

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